Monday, March 26, 2007
love is just a piece of rubber
Seems like everyone around me is plagued by issues of the heart recently.I, for one, spent the weekend biting jp's head off. I just couldn't help it..I was in a very disagreeable mood last weekend. The leftovers of the bout of depression earlier on in the week.
Oh, we've kissed and made up since. And yes, I AM sorry. :(
Sometimes, I wonder if I need help. Sometimes, I wonder why the smallest, littlest things make me go off. Sometimes I wonder if have issues with expressing myself. Sometimes I wonder if I'm going crazy. Sometimes, I wonder...if I am turning into my father.
Maybe I should start saving money in case I really need the reclining couch in future. Those things are exorbitantly priced!
Anyway, back to what I was saying...
Someone I know compared love to a rubber band. Another person I know thinks that you just need love, not marriage. And yet another wonders if it's even love.
Came across this (in my opinion, very wise and very succinctly put) snippet on one of life's greatest mysteries...
There is no one answer to why people want to be together.......
and it is idealistic to think that people get together for love. Every couple is together for different causes. Some for bearing children, some for security, some for money, some for mere campanionship etc. For whatever reason you choose, make sure you are ready to live with it. Do not compare.
Choose a partner who accepts you as you are.......
because frankly, life is tiring enough as it is to pretend to be someone you are not. What it comes down to is, if you can be youself at your weakest with this person without being judged, he is probably the one for you.
If the two of you are not compatible in bed, you two are probably not going to last.......
Whatever it is, love always needs work. It never happens like in the movies.
Like what my friend says in his rubbery theory, love is like a rubberband - pull it too taut and it will snap. Leave it alone for too long, and time will rot the rubber away.