Monday, June 05, 2006

Being responsible

I hate it when people don’t take responsibility for themselves.

I hate it when people always blame on it on something or someone else…As if they had no part to play in the resultant consequence on their own lives.
Afterall, if you don't even want to take responsibility for yourself, what makes you think that anyone else will be responsible for you?

The problem with many people is that they fail to see that a lot of things happen because they let it happen.

They could have changed the outcome, or have prevented something from happening…but because of the tendency to assume that someone else will take care of it as he/she too is affected by it, they just let things just run on.

And when things don’t go the way they want it to go, they will then conveniently blame the other person for not playing their part.

However, should it not be the case whereby if you really want something badly, you will go all out to ensure that you get it? Would you just sit around and wait for something to happen so that what you want will just conveniently fall onto your lap? I doubt it. You’d want to cover all bases.

Hence, I really hate it when I hear sorry excuses such as “I was waiting to see what would happen, before I make my move”, or “I was looking for a sign…”.

Hellooooo. Nobody will wait for you as you dawdle. If you wish to dawdle and you miss your opportunity, then it’s your own fault for wasting time. If people wait, or if they choose to help you, it is a bonus, not an entitlement.

You don’t need permission to seek out what you really want. If you need permission to strive for what you want, then you are a loser, through and through.

XxX,

audrey at 18:52

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