Friday, July 15, 2005

are you open?

I was just thinking...in this time and age whereby everybody cheats on everyone else...why don't men and women just admit to their partners that all they really want is an open relationship?

To put it bluntly, wouldn't it just be easier to tell your bf/gf that what you are really looking for is to start a relationship but still want the freedom to see other people...instead of having to hide "the other"?

Maybe to serve our own selfish needs, we choose to keep our secret desires to ourselves in fear that our significant other will leave upon knowing the awful truth.

But how significant is our significant other if we, ourselves constantly think of another?

And I don't really think the truth is that awful. At least it's the truth, and if i can't get honesty, there is no faith. Without faith, there can be no trust.

Personally, I'd rather be in a god-honest open relationship where i know my bf is oogling and hanging out with other women than be kept in the dark and not knowing...trusting the bastard as he fucks someone else behind my back.

The real question is, would you rather choose to know what he's really thinking and doing or prefer the bliss of ignorance?

I must be either really modern to be willing to share...or just really fucked up.

XxX,

audrey at 18:56

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