Thursday, April 21, 2005

more on love...and affairs.

Is it possible for a man to claim that he loves a woman but have affairs anyway? I always thought the answer would be a resounding "NO" but it seems otherwise now.

Of course im not saying that all men cheat and that all men are sorry asses..im just saying that i'm becoming more and more cynical, day by day.

I know of people who claim that they have found "the one" (yuck. i hate that term. I don't believe in soul mates. What about people who got married and their spouse unfortunately died? When they remarry after 20 years of mourning, do they call their second spouse "the two"? They don't. "The one" is still "the one". Which makes this term rubbish.) but at the same time, carry out flings. The fella can spend lots of money (and sometimes effort) on his girl but boldly solicit sex and other forms of unacceptable behavior from other girls. I just can't understand it.

And this behavior shows up on more than just one individual..mind you. So its not really a sweeping statement. Just that most of these jerks are quite good at hiding their tails..so you wouldn't really be able to tell. And what is worse is that because nobody knows, they all think that he's a gentleman and really dotes on his gf.

**Pui!!!** They couldn't be any farther from the truth.

I don't see the point of spending hundreds of dollars on a girl that you supposedly love, and run the risk of wasting all the money u spent on her when she finds out that you've been cheating. It's so duh! So what's love? In my opinion, it's just guilt money.

I like guilt money. Sorry..i meant that i sometimes like receiving guilt money. Why? Well, not only do i get to scream my head off (i can scream as loud as i want too, because i am right and he is wrong. hahaha!), make him do stuff he hates that i love, demand (and actually get it) lots of attention and best of all, i get to go shopping. Haha. And he can't complain. Otherwise double the punishment! So it does sometimes pay to pretend to be stupid..and weak. Throwing in some tears helps too. Hey..i suffered emotional trauma okay?! I am most justified now to throw a tantrum.

I digress.

So, do guys really view sex and love as two completely different things? I know that women (okay, for most women at least. Samantha from Sex and the City is not a good example and therefore does not count.) equate sex with love. While i hate to admit it, but agreeing to go to bed with someone is like a submission thingy for women. But i guess with guys, since the ancient times, it's just a competition of the sowing the most seeds.

XxX,

audrey at 01:09

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