Saturday, April 17, 2004
heyo.
Im kinda depressed today. Everything seemed to go wrong today. it was SUCH a bad day today!!!! Shan't bore you with the details though.
HOWEVER, despite it being such a horrid day today, i learnt something new about the behavior of males and females. I am now
fully convinced that men are
really from Mars and women are from Venus. I guess any idiot should be able to deduced by now that I didn't have a good time with my bf today.
It is really quite interesting to note the different behaviors and reactions of men and women. Okaay, it's only interesting in retrospect or if you happen to be the by-stander. I would totally agree with you that it is
not fun when you're the one involved. But anyway, as i was saying...it is interesting how women wish to increase the amount of time spent together with their significant other as the relationship matures. On the other hand, guys seem to take it for granted that once they have scored, that's the end of the story. Hey, don't accuse me of being a feminist here now...but this seriously appears to be the trend. Every girl must have heard their mom tell them this!
Well, think about it. When the guy is chasing a girl, he will appear to have ALL the time and money in the world. No effort is too much or any detail too small when it comes to dealing with the target (or shall i say, 'chye'). His friends are of secondary importance and he can go without sleep for days on end just to talk to her on the phone. No idea is a bad idea and whereever she wants to go, he'll take her.
However, once they've been together for a few months (this depends on the guy), he'll start dressing sloppily and suddenly his pocket seems to have developed a hole or something. It is forever...
empty. They just laze around at home all day and everything just gets repetitive.
Hmm....do I sound bitter? Oh well, i guess i should just accept it as a fact of life... Guys are SHIT. Fullstop.
XxX,
audrey at 23:37